Indeed, I do wonder whether it is a good idea to examine your vagina in order to find the G-spot. Well, I heard much about the G-spot, and I know that this is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and that its stimulation can cause enormously strong orgasm. As well I know that there are especial sex toys - G-spot vibrators - for this spot's stimulation, but still I doubt whether I should dare try to find it. Do you wonder, what makes me hesitate?

 

First of all, the G-spot is usually recommended to be looked for together with the partner. The most interesting thing is that the partner should insert his finger and begin examining your vagina exactly after you have achieved orgasm. Well, as to me, there is not much romance about this matter. Instead of embracing each other and enjoying wonderful moments you have to lie with your legs apart like in a laboratory!

 

Secondly, as far as I know only 30 per cent of women can achieve G-spot orgasm. These women can experience great sexual satisfaction through stimulating the G-spot with a sex toy or with fingers (sexual intercourse rarely provides stimulation of the G-spot unless the partner's penis is a little crooked). However, the number is too low. What if I fail to find my G-spot? All efforts will be in vain, this is a so awful discouragement!

 

One more thing prevents me from searching for the G-spot. I really don't know how to speak about this matter with my partner. Perhaps our relationships are not sincere enough, as he still does not know that I love masturbation, that I have many sex toys (dildos, vibrators, butt plugs) and that I want to try one together with him.

 

So I still wonder whether I should dare search for the G-spot and thus refresh my sensations and of course I want to know what others think about this matter.