Sexual fantsies

Indeed, I do wonder whether it is a good idea to examine your vagina in order to find the G-spot. Well, I heard much about the G-spot, and I know that this is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and that its stimulation can cause enormously strong orgasm. As well I know that there are especial sex toys - G-spot vibrators - for this spot's stimulation, but still I doubt whether I should dare try to find it. Do you wonder, what makes me hesitate?

 

First of all, the G-spot is usually recommended to be looked for together with the partner. The most interesting thing is that the partner should insert his finger and begin examining your vagina exactly after you have achieved orgasm. Well, as to me, there is not much romance about this matter. Instead of embracing each other and enjoying wonderful moments you have to lie with your legs apart like in a laboratory!

 

Secondly, as far as I know only 30 per cent of women can achieve G-spot orgasm. These women can experience great sexual satisfaction through stimulating the G-spot with a sex toy or with fingers (sexual intercourse rarely provides stimulation of the G-spot unless the partner's penis is a little crooked). However, the number is too low. What if I fail to find my G-spot? All efforts will be in vain, this is a so awful discouragement!

 

One more thing prevents me from searching for the G-spot. I really don't know how to speak about this matter with my partner. Perhaps our relationships are not sincere enough, as he still does not know that I love masturbation, that I have many sex toys (dildos, vibrators, butt plugs) and that I want to try one together with him.

 

So I still wonder whether I should dare search for the G-spot and thus refresh my sensations and of course I want to know what others think about this matter.

Do you imagine spicy pictures while making love to your girlfriend? Do not be ashamed of this fact. Having sexual fantasies during sexual intercourse means that you have high libido. This interrelation between sexual fantasies and libido is especially seen in women: those women who often have sexual fantasies are more likely to have high sexual desire and to achieve orgasm almost any time they make love.
So do not feel bad about dreaming of Angelina Jolie while making love to your girlfriend as she is very likely to imagine herself making love to Brad Pitt. Do you hate even the thought of it? Well, may be the fact that your girlfriend is dreaming of you while indulging her body with a vibrator will calm you down? Women always dream of something they do not have at the moment.
Women have sexual fantasies during sexual intercourse or while playing with sex toys as often as men. Do not think that your girlfriend is unhappy with you only because her sexual fantasies imply another man. Fantasy helps a woman to increase arousal, especially when being alone and giving pleasure to her body with her hands, or a dildo, or a vibrator or another sex toy. She loves you, but fantasy makes her pleasure and orgasm stronger.
Male and female sexual fantasies
1. Men love imagining themselves with a number of sex partners simultaneously, whereas female sexual fantasy with rare exceptions usually implies only one sex partner.
2. Men in their sexual fantasies usually concentrate on a certain type of sex activity or on a certain part of the body. Female sexual fantasy is not so detailed. Even while a woman is playing with a sex toy, she rarely imagines that her vibrator is her boyfriend's penis. Well, this is not exactly true. While playing with a sex toy she is very likely to dreaming of intercourse with her boyfriend, but she is unlikely to imagine the penis in detail. Women in their sexual fantasies are concentrated mostly on their emotional reactions to some things their partner does.
3. Perhaps you will not be surprised by the fact that women often dream of romantic sex on an island or a forest, among exotic flowers, near a waterfall or in moonlight…Men are not so romantic, and this makes certain difficulties in relationships between men and women.
4. Even while being active - while indulging her pussy with a sex toy or while having sexual intercourse being above her partner - women often dreams of being passive. This does not mean that all women dream of being raped - though some women have such sexual fantasy. Usually women want men to take some pains for making them want sex. Then the man should become tender and loving. Women do not really love brutality.
5. Women much more often than men have homosexual fantasies! They often imagine themselves making love to a beautiful women, especially when playing with such a sex toy as double ended dildo (this is not an absolutely lesbian sex toy, but it is often shared by lesbians). The fact that your girlfriend dreams of sex with a woman does not mean that she is a lesbian. Most women are bisexual somewhere deep in their mind.
6. Female sexual fantasies, unlike male ones, rarely imply any kind of fetish. If a woman dreams of new shoes she goes to a shop and buys them instead of making these shoes a part of their sexual fantasy.
How can you use your sexual fantasies?
Share your sexual fantasies with each other as you really can fulfill some of them. Do you know what your girlfriend is dreaming of while making love to you or while playing with her vibrator? Make her a surprise, try to fulfill her fantasy! Well, may be you will not dare to suggest her having sex with a girl in your presence, but you really can take her to a beautiful place where after romantic dinner you will have the longest and the most enjoyable night in your life. Make her dreams come true!